Mon 8 Oct 2007
You Know Who
Posted by anaglyph under Cow Matters, Nostalgia, Sad, Signs, Whimsy, Words
[19] Comments
I’m packing up my house into cardboard boxes in preparation for my impending relocation from Sydney to Melbourne. As is always the case when it comes to reviewing the amount of crap one accumulates over the years, there have been many sidetracks, some of which will almost certainly make it to The Cow over the next short while.
This book, which I found in my study, was sent to me nearly two years ago by a fellow blogger with whom I was once in almost daily contact. It is called ‘Strange Red Cow (and other curious classified ads from the past)’ by Sarah Bader. It’s a curious, quirky, charming book and as soon as I picked it up I was reminded strongly of the curious, quirky, charming personality of the woman who sent it to me.
I never actually met her in real life, sadly, and she stopped blogging over a year ago with no warning or explanation, and after the very worst kind of family crisis. She also stopped replying to my emails. I have many friends, both in the real world and in cyberspace, and I know from experience that usually when someone abruptly stops communicating it means trouble. I really hope that’s not the case, and I hope she just got bored with blogging and the ephemera of online friends and has found a really happy and contented space in her real world. I guess I’ll never know.*
Que sera, sera.
When I took a break from my cramming of things into boxes and and had a quick nostalgic browse through Strange Red Cow I found this ad, which I like to think would have appealed to her:
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*We can say for certain that she’s not attending to her blog. Great drifts of spam now clog up all the comments on her posts, reminding me as nothing so much as an abandoned house with its porch ankle-deep in unswept leaves.
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I love books like that!
And sorry about your friend. When things get bad, it sometimes does feel easier to disconnect. Not good, but understandable.
That looks like a book I would enjoy.
It feels strange when someone you feel you know, suddenly disappears.
The hole in the cyber space is gaping!
bum. this is the 3rd try to leave a comment.
Perhaps I am meant to become a gaping hole in cyberspace!
I cant seem to leave a comment here any more.
Last ditch effort, or I might drop out of Cyberspace too!
I miss Anne too.
I talked to you know who about three months ago. It was nice to hear from her, but I got the feeling she had moved on to a new life. Good for her, I guess. I feel bad only getting to see her once and not for too long.
Oh well.
Moving is so much fun! The Garbage collecters hate when I move.
Anyone else aside from Joey, Mau and Meggie having comment post problems? Trying to establish a pattern…
Testing… nope, I can comment just fine.
At least that’s what I think…
Sh!t! I see 2 of the comments got through!
Well, 4, actually, but who’s counting?
Testing also …
Phoebe Fay (aka You Ain’t Foolin’ Anyone): Oh, I think I can understand what might have happened. But all the same, it’s sad to lose a friend, no matter if it’s the RW or the world-of-bits.
Meggie: I think you would enjoy the book too. I’ll post some more exerpts in due course.
Casey: You know, I really hope she’s moved on to a new life, even if it is without us. Her old life was crappy, and no-one deserves a life like that. Especially someone so full of wit and vivaciousness.
Malach: Hey. You wanna come ’round and help me pack boxes? I’ve got beer.
You’d best take your Cow with you to Melbourne, because if you stop blogging I’ll fly there myself to personally bitch slap you.
And it’ll give me an excuse to stop in and see Missy, since she lives there, too.
Moving! What fun … NOT! I once moved 5 times in 3 years. It does keep the accumulation of junk down. Hope things go smoothly for you.
Glad to hear that Casey had spoken to her. I’ve wondered about her also.
jmf: Missy gave me strict instructions not to divulge her address to you.
sara sue: I’ve been in this house for 17 years. I also have the accumulation of stuff from a house I had in the country for a while. So you can imagine the disaster area that is my abode at the moment.
Chickie: Yeah, that’s all I really wanted to know too. That she is OK. Last time we spoke she was pretty unhappy and that’s not such a great way to part ways.
glad she moved on and all, but i kinda miss her. She is my very first fave and remain is.
Happy New Year, all